Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Absence

I realized it has been a month since I last posted. There are a few reasons for this. The first one is that I have been really busy! We've registered, ordered/addressed/sent Save the Dates, and worked on other aspects of the wedding. The music for the ceremony has been selected, and we met with our priest for the last time until August! I have been playing at weddings most weekends, as well as meeting with brides on Sundays to select their music.

The other reason I've been gone is a bit harder to explain. I've become a bit disenchanted with the whole blogging/message board thing. I thought I knew a few ladies fairly well and considered them friends. I guess my judgement is not the best, because it turns out this is not the case. I haven't been posting on the boards lately because of this and lack of time. There has also been some other drama on the boards lately. I'm not quite sure where I stand with things.

I do know that not everyone on the boards is like this. I'm not sure how many events I will go to with ladies from the wedding board. It's kind of like being around an ex-boyfriend - kind of awkward! I'm hoping, though, I can just suck it up and be the bigger person. I won't let a few people ruin things for me. I will just talk with other people!

3 comments:

Teresa said...

Unfortunately, it seems like some really great people are now straying from the forum. I totally understand your point of view though and it's not an easy call to make! If you do decide not to keep going to events I hope you stay in touch!

And yay for the wedding accomplishments!!!

Beckie said...

I am so happy to see you post. I was starting to wonder about you. I hope we can stay in touch! You have gotten so much done!

I feel the same way that you do, I have been hurt and betrayed too many times so I am just taking a step back also.

Amanda said...

I was just thinking about you the other day. I thought maybe you were just busy now that wedding season is upon us and school is letting out. Do you have any pics of your recent wedding accomplishments?